I'm Jaclyn Urban Luna, Relationship Coach - Intimacy, Sex & Money
I've been blessed to have been pretty successful in life. I enjoyed acclaim and fulfillment as an opera singer, voice teacher, yoga instructor and life coach, but was feeling embarrassed about my CO-DEPENDENT and SEX-STARVED marriage.
As a spiritual seeker and personal growth enthusiast for 15+ years, you can imagine how shameful it felt.
If I'm so 'conscious' and evolved, I SHOULD KNOW BETTER how to have a thriving relationship!
Can you relate?
So after 6 years together and 2 years married without a major improvement in the health of our intimacy and sex life, I was really questioning my marriage. My husband and I are SOO different and I began second-guessing if he was the 'right one'. I mean, we speak completely different languages (LITERALLY and figuratively)!!!
He didn't appear to be on the same growth path as me and I figured we just had irreconcilable differences. We even tried couples counseling and we just kept feeling more disconnected, our sex life was really dwindling, and at it's worst, I really considering the idea that maybe another, more 'evolved man' is what I needed (I had major FOMO).
I figured we were doomed. But I loved him and we really had a lot going for us, so I decided I was going single-handedly end our relationship. And invite him to create a whole new one.
Yup, we dissolved our marriage and re-created it. By now, we've done it at least 3 times. And you can, too.
Of course, I finally accepted that what I was doing on my own wasn't working and since couple's counseling only served to have us talking in circles, I hired a Relationship Coach, which made all the difference.
My husband and I began to love each other with a level of team-work we didn't have before. We began to bring more sensitivity, kindness and curiosity when we disagreed instead of turning against each other.. We started thanking and praising each other (authentically) every single day because it felt natural and good to do so. Our sex life became more frequent, tender and kinky!
Following this incredible transformation in our marriage, since I was already a Life Coach myself, I decided to specialize in relationships and immersed myself in several trainings, all body-based and brilliant.
I've helped several amazing clients save their marriage from tough stuff - overall disconnection, emotional infidelity, alcohol use, disparate world-views.
And I'd love to teach you, too.
In my offerings, I teach you how to :
1. Create Intimacy where both you and your partners feel seen and respected, without holding back that one Truth that you're sure is going to implode your life
2. Create passionate sex that's not forced or mechanical and has you hungry to jump into bed together
3. Create loving sanctuary where both partners feel safe and connected without turning into a parent or losing your boundaries.
4. Discover a shared purpose that takes your lifestyle to the next level of joint satisfaction and excitement, as well as possibly quantum leaping you into a spiritually transcendent mission, if that's what your partnership is ready for!
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Jaclyn has 12+ years’ experience working with clients to claim their deepest Truth/Desire, harness their innate wisdom and develop a coherent state of Being, to create powerful results in their lives. Jaclyn employs an integrated approach of creational and healing work, informed by psycho-spiritual and neuro-somatic principles, to support her clients to align their subconscious with their conscious body-mind, to create a life they love.
Drawing on her own lived experience doubling her net-worth and catalyzing an up-level in her marriage with an amazing (yet radically different partner), she specializes in coaching other women in small group containers & retreats as well as 1:1 private mentorship, to break through blocks around their own money behavior, sensual-erotic expression, and relationship intimacy.
Her training includes:
Inquiry Method® Life Coaching Certification (Kyle Mercer) 2019
Subconscious Re-programming (Joe Dispenza Coursework) 2022
Performance/Creational Coaching (Apprenticeship with Juliet Trnka/Rich Litvin lineage) 2020
Sex & Relationship Coaching (Somatica Method, Body-based & Experiential Principles) 2020
Erotic Archetypal Embodiment (Dancing Eros) 2019
Shadow-work & Inner Child Healing (Internal Family Systems) 2018
The Gottman Method Relationship Training Level 1 2018
Shamanic Healing (Pachakuti Mesa Tradition Training) 2019
Relationship Coaching (Keeping Love Alive Program, Michele Weiner-Davis) 2018
Money Behavior (Overcoming Under-earning, Barbara Stanny) 2017
Money Behavior Coaching (Deborah Price) 2017
Desire Excavation (Desire Mapping, Danielle LaPorte) 2015
Somato-Respiratory Integration/Breathwork Healing (Donald Epstein) 2012
Yogic Principles (Holistic Yoga Fitness Instructor & Spiritual Life Coach Certification) 2012
Ontological Coaching (Landmark Worldwide) 2007
Master’s in Music: Vocal Performance/Opera 2012-15
Bachelor’s in Music Education 2002
CLIENT LOVE
Transformational results our clients have had are due to their commitment to completing the rigorous inner and outer work. These clients are exceptional human beings and it has been a gift to witness and support their transformation in their development of their erotic and relational sovereignty.
"“I’m now finally able to be uncomfortable with the fear and understand now where my insecurities came from which give me the power and energy to push myself. I was scared out of my mind to really go for my deepest desires and I'm so grateful for Jackie's compassionate and intense coaching that helped me get there! ” "
Client Transformation & Testimonial
Krys B.
"“In my coaching sessions with Jackie, I gained some important personal insight about both my and my spouse's approach to intimacy and why I was holding back in my marriage. This was a deep personal revelation which was truly surprising and unexpected... It really opened the door to improved communication around our intimacy.”"
Client Transformation & Testimonial
Kim L.
"It'd be incredibly beneficial to book a VIP session with Jaclyn if you're struggling with connecting to yourself and your desire. If you're feeling depleted and burnt out, having your not having fun anymore, if your love life isn't where you expected it to be or if you feel you're not in alignment with your vision. I promise you'll feel revived and remember why you started your business to begin with❤️"
Client Transformation & Testimonial
Harpreet M.
"The feminine circle most of all felt safe. A place where I could share and listen to other women and what they’re struggling through. Jackie makes it feel warm and inspiring. Best of all, she makes me feel like the goddess that I am. "
Client Transformation & Testimonial
K.B.
"I love being part of the feminine circles with Jaclyn. Her guidance helped me and the other women feel comfortable to share our vulnerabilities in a welcoming space. With each circle, I feel more empowered to be myself and understand who I truly am."
Client Transformation & Testimonial
Carolina A.
"I am eternally grateful for the healing session I received from Jaclyn. She came into my life when I most needed it and on the day of our session, I was all over the place. From the moment we connected, Jaclyn's energy felt as if I was coming home. Honestly, I've heard people say "hold/holding space" but Jaclyn's energy totally demonstrated that. When we first started the session, my breathing was so constricted in my chest and I had so much fear going on within me. Underneath the fear was anger that I felt since I was 4 years old. I didn't know that the anger I had went this far back. The somatic inquiry and the breathing technique help me to release and for the first time in God knows how long, I felt a separation in my chest. Meaning, in that area, I could freely breathe. What I loved the most about the session is that at one point, I kept seeing a pregnant belly, which was my mom's while she was pregnant with me. So, in essence, not only was I getting the healing but my mom was receiving healing as well. I am very grateful to Jaclyn, for her kindness and service. I'm in France and am very separated from my energy healers I used to work with in the states, so working with Jaclyn was such a Godsend. Forever grateful Jaclyn. Deep bow and gratitude. "
Client Transformation & Testimonial
W. Manly
"My session with Jaclyn came at the most perfect time. I had an overwhelming morning, filled with elevated emotions and increased anxiety around my life. When I got on Zoom with Jaclyn, I immediately resonated with her energy and the work that she does. I loved how embodied she was and how open she was to share her work with the world. First, we dove into childhood wounds and where my body’s energy needed extra attention. I knew exactly where my body was asking for more awareness. She guided me to feel into those spaces and increase the emotionality that was present. In doing this, I was able to uncover a deeply rooted belief that I didn’t know existed subconsciously and physically release the emotions that were tied to it. The physical release brought relief from the pain that I was experiencing, which I definitely needed. The breathwork portion helped me expand those areas that felt stuck or small and integrate new beliefs into my body. I was also given the opportunity to feel what it felt like to be free of the heaviness that has been weighing me down for so long. That felt so freeing and allowed me to feel light and aligned, which is something I haven’t felt in a while. She also created such a safe space within the session that I felt comfortable enough to express how I had been feeling on a topic (and to people) that I hadn't shared fully with anyone else. Having space where I could safely and fully express my experience was so priceless. Including the shamanic knowledge of the seasons/directions and the elements that go along with them in the session helped me understand different aspects of my nature and how much internal power I have over how I feel and operate in the world. Knowing more information about this will help me remind myself of my own power when I need it most. At the end of the session, she suggested practices that she felt would be helpful for me moving forward; some of which were things I had been recently neglecting in my life (a definite reminder from the Universe!) and some were completely new to me. I will take all of the information she shared with me and the suggestions she gave and start to integrate them into my life. Her warm energy, sharp intuition and clear connection to Universal guidance definitely helped me in releasing stuck energy, working through a deeply rooted limiting belief and reminded me of my own power to create the career and life that I want, regardless of what others may think. Thank you, Jaclyn - for seeing me, supporting me, helping me heal and guiding me to share more of my fullest self and my work to the world. <3""
Client Tranformation & Testimonial
Courtney M.
"THANK YOU Jaclyn, for an amazing, liberating session. I experienced Jaclyn as a shamanic healer integrating somatic inquiry in a loving container, where I felt held and safely guided. I so appreciated identifying the “stuck” places in my body and figuring out what was stuck in my life. Jaclyn holds space amazingly, and I felt honored to be seen by her and by our guides. Visualization, vocalization and breath-work opened up so much in me, and connected me with my inner child whose voice needs to be heard! This intensive work is what I needed at this precise moment. I’m blown away by the beautiful alignment that brought us together. Thank you for reading my energy and seeking the guidance to move me forward, Jaclyn! Thank you for the tools I am using to feel and engage with my voice so that I can move past being silenced!"
Client Transformation & Testimonial
Kidan K.
"I didn’t know what to expect on my Zoom call with Jaclyn, but she absolutely blew me away. She helped me work through healing so many traumas that I didn’t realize still needed to be healed, and she did it in a way that wasn’t scary, intimidating or judgey. She held space for me as I was navigating through different emotions and experiences, and I’m so thankful for her time and energy in helping me. I went in to our call feeling open but also a bit skeptical, and I left our call feeling so light, open and airy. I felt safe, protected, heard and cared about. She made me think about things in a different way without telling me how to feel or think. She was honest and so helpful, and I’m very grateful that we connected. I highly recommend her! "
Client Transformation & Testimonial
Jessica K.
""I was blessed to do a 2-hour deep dive session w Jaclyn, and it was incredible. The way she held space, the way she encouraged me to really release in a major way, the way she deeply set and honored the container. It was magnificent. So much of the work we did together I've done before, but this felt powerfully different. I felt a massive shift in my physiology after our session together. Cheers to doing the deep work on the ancestral trauma, today was a huge step in the right direction! Thank you Jaclyn!" "
Client Transformation & Testimonial
Heather H.
"I felt extremely held the entire time with Jaclyn which meant I was able to dig deep and shed so many layers. The experience felt spacious and safe. I let go of childhood trauma that’s been present for me for YEARS and the process was so seamless and easy. The breathe met with the shamanic guidance, felt very empowering and I could integrate and embody everything that came to the surface. The result is more strength and trust, an ability to let go and surrender. I feel more on purpose and playful. Solid with who I am. Words can only get you so far, the deep emotional body work is where you can step out of your own way and release, plus be in partnership with your innate body wisdom which is limitless. "
Client Transformation & Testimonial
Agnes Z.
Listen to Katie's Testimonial Audio Here
She shares about how dancing the Erotic Mother Archetype in the Wholly Woman! Workshop was impactful for her in expanding her sexual expression and dissolving her madonna/whore complex.
Listen to Jill's Testimonial Audio Here
She shares about how our musical exploration session has re-connected her to her voice, after years feeling blocked with her singing. This also made a big difference in her life in general as she was able to open up even more to her partner, and share the truth where was previously silencing herself!